Nation’s chief executive is a blessed man to have two women in his life and even luckiest one to be able to announce it publicly. Very few Indian males have the guts to speak about such personal issue so openly. Indian men might be jealous of him and cursing their luck. Lauding openly two women in his life could really be a difficult task for a man and it becomes even difficult when he has to credit just one of them for his success. Victory is the most important thing in Indian politics as well as in Indian families. A woman always wants to win the title of “most sacrificed woman” in her man’s life
In Indian society, the normal tendency of a woman is to drive her husband’s life in her own way- starting from his food habit, dressing sense, money management to each and every area. After certain age she tries to do it with her son’s life and always stand ahead to take the full credit for his achievements. The problem of a man starts here. Who to give the word of thanks publicly? Mom or Wife? This is not a single instance of tug of wars between two women. But often a man find himself sandwiched between his good friend (of course a girl) and his girlfriend or between his lady boss and wife.
Even I am not an exception. I keep asking my hubby who is a better cook- my mother-in–law or me? He has always answered me in a diplomatic way. I am sure he has the answer but does not dare to give the right one.
In the last press conference, the Prime Minister of our country, Mr Manmohan Singh, admitted that he has two women in his life who have influenced his life a lot. He briefed about the benefits he has derived by following the advice of these two women– his wife Gursharan Kaur and Congress President Sonia Gandhi. Both of them counsel him on different matters. However, I don’t know what were the consequences of these statements after he had gone home?
I think comparison between wife and mother is far different than comparison between wife and other woman in a man’s life. So the example which you have drawn before going to main topic has no similarity with that. Also you have not elaborated the fact , why you are telling that Mr. Singh is very lucky.
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ReplyDeletesometimes a topic does not have a direct meaning.it depends how u look at it:):)
ReplyDeletei think i have written it in a very first line why he is lucky as he can announce it publicly.
ReplyDeleteand the second thing that other woman doesn't mean that only gf or extra martial affair case bla bla ...here i have not tried to compare any relation but tried to say that a man always finds difficult who to give credit for their achievement publicly..
well d post is ok...bt not good enuf matching stnderds f ur older posts..bol 4 nxt tym n ur topic...bt truly u cnt really burn down d effect n imression of on a boy or man's life from wife n mother...hw cn v 4gt avt our gfs hu hv taught us various nitty gritties f lyf hw 2 handle situation maintain rltn and b diplomatc ta hlps in our later lives..we shld b thnkfl 2 all f dem..well atlst I am
ReplyDeleteheheheh:):) sayantan,i am agree with u ...behind a man's success there may be other woman also..except wife and mom..at that point only man finds difficult whom to thanks publicly..wife,mom or some other woman.coz everyone wants to get the credit..as it is a blog ,so i just gve 1 example here.i will gv more exmpls when i will write a book:):):)
ReplyDeleteumm ri8o..bt v cnt deny d fact n d role dey played in makin us wat v r 2day..
ReplyDeletehey nice read ! i totaly enjoyed
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