Boys, why don’t you tell the truth?
After so many years of attending co-ed school, college and of course university even today I am not able to understand the peculiar behavior of boys.
A very common dialogue among the boys is “I am not after her”.However, they would give their 100% to impress a girl in one hand and in the other hand they would brand it to their friends that the girl is not of their “type”. What is their “type” then? Is anyone of them really clear about their “type”?
These guys would never step behind to join the rat race of spending thousands to impress a girl only to justify the thousands as time-pass. Time pass by spending money to impress someone! Don’t u boys have any other hobbies for time pass?
Another funny thing is that they never fail to show the height of patience in bearing girl’s “Nakhras”. However, the same guy would advise his friends, colleagues and juniors not to give “Bhau” or stand any of their “Nakharas”.
And if a boy senses some soft signal from a girl having being impressed after a long endeavor of playing the impressing game by him, he proudly though smartly manipulates the secret that it is actually the girl showing interest on him- not him.
I have seen many boys pleading their sisters, cousins, and friends to get a girlfriend for them because they don’t have time to search one for themselves. If they don’t have time to find their soul mate then how would they manage to go with them for a date and of course for shopping?Actually, the reason is that, they have tried with all in their close but did not get a positive response.
One of the very common complaints of the boys who have already succeeded in their mission of having a girlfriend is that the girls use to talk too much and that too on nonsense and stupid topics. However, u can find the same guy calling the customer care every now and then just to find out the new schemes on low call rates, SMS schemes, night call schemes etc to talk to their girlfriends and listen to those so called “nonsense and stupid topics”.
Boys, don’t blow up. Exceptions are definitely there and I must say u guys are actually risk takers in maximum love stories- otherwise many love stories could not have a happy end.
But at least don’t tell lie yaar. JJJJJ
u r generalizing...n pointin out d bad side f a guy..i agree tat we r bad we lie..bt nt intendin 2 hurt ne1..bt u gals nvr realise y we do tat...n wont until u put urslf insyd our jackt..n its tough 2 xplore d opposite sex ..dere r traits f gals we cnt xplain n nvr can..
ReplyDeletecool!!! sayntan:):)
ReplyDeleteall is fair in love and war...and we get a little of both when in a relationship. nd i have seen many grls lie too... "oh no i just see you as a friend"...cmonnnnnnnnnnnn!!!
ReplyDeleteheheh somak....u r rite...are girls have done masters in telling lie...will write abt gals also next time:):)but as far now enjoy this one...
ReplyDeleteFirst, I am not justifying the reasons of why Boys lie nor do I claim that they dont lie.But
ReplyDeletemay be the reason for it is the society that we live in causes this chauvinism to become a part of boys/mens behavior.
You must know this, there are many hus-bands who lie to their mothers and relatives that it is they who have the upper hand in the marriage, where as the reality would be quite otherwise.
If you are talking about Love/Relationship then there are phases to it.. the school "teen crushes", the college days "rush for girlfriend" and the post college "let's find a GF who is wife material".. and then there is "TRUE LAAV/SOLE MATE" thing..
Now the case that you described, IMHO falls in the 2nd phase where the guy is in college and because of the peer-pressure has to have a GF. Remember how many times we must have asked our friends/cousins, "kya re koi bf/gf nahi hai kya?" and that is when the lying/spendingcash phase takes speed.
And the pattern continues where this guy would tell his juniors that it was the Girl who was interested and so on and so forth..
Sorry for the extravagance in comments.. but hoe you would realize the Boy in me which got deeply hurt :) and disturbed by the true revelations about my species. :-;)
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ReplyDeletegodd didi.......but case is same with the gals...
ReplyDeletethey r very difficult 2 understand.....
now a days gals r really dangerous....
n i guess its very difficult 2 find an ideal gal in this era.....
neways i'll still say FIND ONE FOR ME..... :)
hehehe sure.Anything for my dear bro:):)
ReplyDeleteMouli it is a honest opinion about guys and I do agree to it completely. Pehle ladki patane keliye jhut, baad mein galti chupane keliye jhut..always complaining about girl's Nakhras, still behind them always...A Big Lie again!!!!! At least be yourself.;)
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ReplyDeleteLadki bhi kya kam hai....jooth bolna to koi ladki se sikhe...jabardasti k nakhra...are hum ladke jhel lete hai- ye soch k ki bad mein sab thik ho jayega...but 10sal bad bhi jab use ladki k nakhrabaji thik nahi hota hai, apne baki dost, junior ko advice dena padta hai ki ladkiyo ko bhau mat do ye soch k ki kal sab thik ho jayega...kuch thik nahi hoga bhaiya..ye ladkiyo ko agar suru se handle nahi kiya bad mein bahut pastaoge..
ReplyDeleteI agree on all the points you well said here...But have not heard you "starting ladke ko hi karna padta hai"
ReplyDeleteThis process of having girl friend is like marketing for him self...And he tells lie bcoz if he leaks his product marketing ideas he may be a looser as other competitor can grab the ooportunity.Have not you watched movie "corporates"
when they get success in their plan then tell lie to hide their business development ideas.
They ask their sis, cousin to get one girl friend for them bcoz "Apno se hi business Ideas nahi lenge toh kis se lenge"
After getting whole success they announce it publicly "A marriage ceremony"
So dont tell boys are lier...They are true professionals.
Well, what all points you mentioned, are not always true.
ReplyDeleteAgreed that this happens at times, but now its more of a filmy statement than a real life thing happening these days. And by my "type" its more intended towards an overall compatibility.
Generalising on the basis of a few instances is not apt.
However, I do not thing any guy should take it in a wrong spirit, coz this seems to be a narrow perception out of a limited experience.
No offence.